But have you ever suddenly feel stuck, bored and tired not because of a particular reason yet? Maybe it's the emotions were repressed through many years, through many actions that you have unconsciously repeated in my life. Partly, it has gradually corrode the soul, emotions and your life.
The life of each person short of capital, the youth went by quickly, if you can recognize this earlier I guarantee you there will be a period of time not wasted.
1. Get a job do not like, just do to earn a living.
The truth is, many young people graduating, leaving school and entering the job workers everywhere, scattered all over the place .. A portion CV by you must burden on the shoulders of family pressure, making money, another part because he wanted to have the money to serve the needs, desires of ourselves that we forget that, in doing so did not know whether or not what you want, only for the money.
so, you're throwing the younger years on a treadmill of endless rice - shirt - rice - money. Then come to find out, you'll have no way to escape from his treadmill.
2. Dating a man just because of fear of loneliness.
The mistake a lot of people are just lonely is to go find someone to "fill the gaps", just love and then broke up, then fall in love .. The romance not true lasting several months will permanently scar just makes you feel more alone.
3. Learning what your parents want you to learn, to do the work that parents orientation, forget or ignore what YOU want to learn themselves.
Sometimes, we live dependent on their parents and even the road itself announced I want parents orientation. I had a guy friend, chosen as bank-oriented parents, give up your current job in a Non-governmental organization (whether he likes the job), and then sat depressed now, reeling with new concepts, the piles of books and documents which it was fed to the throat.
4. In lỳ a place you really want to go out and explore the world.
When you're young, you think you want to go or have no money, I want to go but fear dangerous .. means you are wasting the "dare try, dare to do "of youth. Want to go out, take a step out of their safety, and that the world has a lot of interesting things.
5. Bigotry jealously guarded a certain personality traits. Forget that you can also experience, grow and change more.
Make someone to change the personality is something extremely difficult. They say, "Jiang painted easy to change, nature is difficult to leave". But when fully mature, you realize that, everything can change, and as their prices realized it sooner. Listening to others is one good way to change one trait that is not true of you, do not be afraid, it is not bad, it just helps you grow and mature over only.
6. Obsessive about saving money. Forget that you need to invest in your own life.
Living in the rotation rice rice shirt money is the misfortune of any public adult. When they are forced to do so, because the family, for life .. when you're young, invest for yourself by the thoughts, deeds that you are passionate about, the new experience ...
7. Deluding himself that he would pursue his passion as richer or better.
If you now do not pursue passion, you will never get them. When you are at the age of 20, you are very much time, so many people will help you to develop you more. Because then you immature, easily wrong fix, easy to change, easy to learn.
8. Protect yourself from failure is a failure.
9. Make decisions based on fear of being isolated from the majority rather than choosing which suit themselves.
10. Only those who love your eligibility.
11. Wish someone come and mend your broken heart rather than heal it yourself.
12. Spend too much time missed the past. Forget about building current or future.
13. Loving someone makes you feel self-conscious about themselves.
14. Obsessive about what you think you deserve, but do not actually do anything to fight for it.
15. Hope life is unfair.
16. Keep an emotional decision.
17. Closed emotion, closed including ones.
18. Fear of being scornfully because to tell the truth.
19. Focus search brief joy instead of lasting happiness.
20. Too focused on my career.
21. Be nice to the people around, do not bother myself to anything.
22. Be nice to yourself, do not bother to those around.
23. Never take the initiative to do if you are not sure you will succeed.
24. Forgot to stop at a certain point and retreats to recognize whether you are self-sabotage my life.
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