Jealousy is an emotion can torment you with anger, hatred. And if you can not understand the reason behind his jealousy, you will never get a life happy and satisfied.
1. Understanding emotions. Jealous is a combination of fear and anger; fear of losing something, and angry that someone has what you want. Such emotions can make you self shrinkage itself to avoid the pain. 2. Looking back at your past to understand why you feel so insecure and what events led you to have feelings of anger and jealousy are tormented, destroy you. When determining the root of it, you can start separating ourselves from them. The denial tends to exaggerate the emotions become unprofitable and can not tolerate. Facing the past may not be devastating but you will get a happy future. 3. Allow yourself to really "feel" that emotion in a positive way. You can not control what you are feeling; you can only control what you are made to feel it. When you start to feel jealous, ask yourself: it's fear or anger much more than that? If there are spasms in the abdomen, most likely fear. If the role and function like fire, it is true that you are angry then. 4. Please gushed about your feelings with someone you envy. If you ignored, say something. Explain that you are interested, you are tormented because of jealousy and could not escape the thought. However, do not make any accusation or claim anything. Share your real feelings with someone but do not blame them would be able to create a deep connection between your 2. 5. Please see your jealousy is teaching you what. Jealousy can tell you what you want. If you are jealous of someone because they have more money, ask yourself, how to earn more money in your life? If you are jealous of someone because they are beautiful, ask yourself what you can do better at the point? When you start acting to get what you want, you will not feel envious of others. Instead, you will feel the excitement, stimulation because you are on the path to what you expected. 6. Need to change the false beliefs that are at the root of jealousy as: "I'm not good enough, not pretty enough, or not rich enough" or "They're prettier, smarter or better than me." Confidence can change. If you do, you will change the way you feel. Give yourself a belief is encouraging and you will be comfortable, much easier. Exposure to the optimism, confidence and limited interaction with one or "laments sighed," because they just pull you down further as severance. When you take the initiative to create a happy life for yourself, you will see anger, jealousy and the pain of naturally dissolve.
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