Life is a treadmill, 24 still passed, the sun still rises in the East and the West as usual dive, only emotions we humans are changing. Changes bring joy and motivation to try, there are difficulties to bring discouragement and frustration ... At such times you do? Are you or blurted out the word "Fed" is not it? You fall into a passive emotional sadness that deadlock does not see the way out?
Yes, not only you, me and many others in the face of life also fall prey to emotions. We call it a failure in general, precisely because it is commonly referred to fail, so we do not shape the failure was, and did not know what to do to overcome. Now, me and you would find out about it offline. 1. What is failure? As if we do not achieve a desired goal or something at work, love, cooking, parenting, learning ... Often when experiencing failure, human emotions become identical down, some visible manifestation that is bored, feel inferior, ashamed, thinking and trying more ... for as you have tried to study well to prepare for final exams, but the result, one or more subjects low points, such as a failure. for as you finish, the school does not get a job, I would not know where to go and find life meaningless, such as furniture failure. for example, you have a stable job, but the couple's love life is pressure every time sitting together, raising their grown children are too difficult than you imagine, so too is the failure ... Van on and so forth ... But in my opinion, clustered them into one 3 common types of failure that I will share with you at the right below. 2. There are 3 types of failure. Failure was horrible: They fail when they feel life is wretched and pressure. They see a sky full of dark areas, they fall for failed attempts to circumvent or defeat. The vast majority of people from this type of failure often has no purpose, no tries but always compare yourself to others, always want to get more of what you do. Remaining few people who are very good, very hard, very kind, but because of the harsh life, while having a problem as psychological trauma, nervous. They fall prey to street or depression worse and this time the disease can indeed knock anyone's fiercest. Failure is failure: People in this group as having failed, they faced it was hard to fall away but they got up to go forward strained. They passively receive it when facing defeat, it took quite a long time stand up, move on the path of his life wandering in the mood, shyness ... Failure is what ?: The people in the group this is no "failure" in the dictionary of their lives, they simplify the failure as a temporary difficulty. They still have feelings of boredom, there are times mournful, timid, but that feeling quickly passed so they rushed to this life, to learn more, to love more and more successful. Sometimes they take the initiative and want more ... They difficulties other than the top two groups, unlike a lot of the rest .... And, they are the successful. 3. What if I fail. - Need to actively embrace failure as an inevitable challenge in life if you want to go further, be more successful. When the initiative, you will know and think what to do. You will be comfortable facing the failure to choose for themselves a reasonable decision. - Do not compare yourself to anyone else, compare yourself yesterday. Try to better your tomorrow today. You will see sense and a lot more fun. - Always work has value and meaning: Meet failure is not lying down, sleeping, bored that hold the paper, outlined his view wrong somewhere, difficult where. Failed not get the game, hovering facebook all day that needs to stand up, invite friends to play, explore life. Fail, and did not consider it a failure, it was wonderful.
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