Anh nói rất muốn có một cô con gái

Anh nói rất muốn có một cô con gái nhỏ, đứa con là kết quả tình yêu với tôi vì rất yêu tôi, muốn quản lý tôi, để tôi yêu anh nhiều hơn nữa.
Tôi 37 tuổi, từng có chồng và một con trai lớn, cháu đang học đại học. Tôi mới lập gia đình với ông xã mới được gần một năm, anh hơn tôi 10 tuổi, đã ly hôn vợ và có hai con. Con gái lớn của anh vừa vào đại học, ở với mẹ cháu; con trai nhỏ đang học cấp ba, vừa rồi cháu được gia đình bên ngoại đưa ra nước ngoài học. Quan hệ giữa vợ chồng tôi với vợ cũ của anh và ba đứa con đều tốt đẹp.

Tôi đang có vị trí tốt ở một cơ quan nhà nước, chồng làm tư nhân. Gần đây, anh bày tỏ mong muốn sinh thêm con, tôi phân vân quá. Anh nói sinh thêm con để thắt chặt tình cảm vợ chồng, anh muốn có một đứa con chung với tôi, hứa chăm sóc mẹ con tôi chu đáo, không ngại khó, ngại khổ chăm con lúc nhỏ cho tôi ngủ nghỉ. Hiện nhà chỉ có tôi và anh, như cặp vợ chồng son. Sở dĩ tôi phân vân vì con đã gần 20 tuổi rồi, bản thân cũng quá tuổi thuận lợi sinh đẻ nên ngại. Phần nữa là tôi có thu nhập ổn định, còn anh thất thường.

Gần năm nay mọi sinh hoạt gia đình chủ yếu do tôi đảm nhiệm, anh nói chỉ mong công việc thuận lợi, kiếm tiền “nộp” cho vợ, có vẻ rất cố gắng, công việc đang tiến triển tốt. Anh luôn sẵn sàng chia sẻ việc nhà khiến tôi cũng hài lòng. Tôi thấy tạo ra một đứa trẻ bây giờ mệt bố mẹ thì ít mà mệt cho con thì nhiều. Các con phải học nhiều quá, mất hết cả tuổi thơ. Tôi muốn vợ chồng có tiền sẽ lo cho ba đứa con (đã có) để các cháu có cuộc sống tốt hơn bởi chúng tôi đều không câu nệ chuyện con anh, con em. Sau đó phụ lo cho cha mẹ, người thân hai bên, dư ra thì để dành vợ chồng về già lo cho nhau, đi du lịch này nọ.

Lúc này tôi sợ công việc anh chưa có thu nhập tốt, một mình tôi cáng đáng thêm con thì quá sức, chưa kể sinh muộn không tốt cho mẹ và thai nhi, sợ việc sinh đẻ ảnh hưởng đến trí tuệ, sức khỏe hai mẹ con. Tôi nói vậy anh có vẻ không vui bởi anh tự tin rằng sẽ dư sức lo cho các con. Lâu lâu anh lại nói “Hai người lớn ở với nhau mãi cũng buồn quá, sinh con đi em”. Anh nói rất thèm một cô con gái nhỏ, bày tỏ muốn có đứa con là kết quả tình yêu với tôi vì rất yêu tôi. Anh muốn có con phần vì muốn quản lý tôi, để tôi yêu anh nhiều hơn.

Anh biết chồng cũ là một kỷ niệm đẹp với tôi, chỉ vì mâu thuẫn nhỏ mà anh bỏ mình. Tôi và anh lại không có kết hôn, tài sản chỉ là căn nhà tôi ở lại, không tranh chấp. Chồng cũ của tôi giờ ở xa nhưng vẫn chưa lấy vợ và còn yêu thương tôi nhiều dù chúng tôi rất giữ khoảng cách liên lạc. Chồng mới có ngoại hình hơn chồng cũ, còn mọi thứ đều thua xa, tôi ngày càng yêu anh và hứa với lòng sẽ bên anh, chung thủy với anh suốt đời.

Tối nay anh lại thủ thỉ nói tôi sinh con, anh nói chỉ nói nốt lần này thôi, không nhắc lại nữa. Anh nghi ngờ tôi không toàn tâm toàn ý với anh, không muốn sinh con. Anh cho rằng tôi có ý nghĩ sẽ quay lại với chồng cũ. Giờ vì việc sinh con mà niềm tin của chồng với tôi lung lay. Tôi lặp lại những điều mình đã nghĩ thì anh hờn dỗi, nói mát. Tôi có nên sinh con nữa không? Sinh con ra nhiều mối lo quá. Mong các bạn cho mình xin ý kiến. Chân thành cảm ơn!

Kết quả (Anh) 1:

You'd have a little girls, baby is the result of love to me for love me, want to manage me, for I love you more.I am 37 years old, had her husband and an older son, you're in college. I'm married with new hubby for almost a year, England than I was 10 years old, divorced his wife and had two children. My daughter has just entered College, in with my mother; small boys are learning level three, just then I was home the foreign party given to foreign students. The relations between husband and wife to widow and three children were all nice.I'm having good position in a State Organization, the husband do the privatization. Recently, he expressed a desire born more children, me too. He said more children born to crunch love the couple, you want to have a child in common with me, promise to take care of my mother I don't thoughtful, tough, small health gauge for concern, I sleep at my leisure. Now there is only you and me, as the couple's son. I hesitate because I was almost 20 years old, himself also the favourable age childbirth should be afraid. Another part is that I have a steady income, and erratic.Near this year all family activities mainly due to I assume you're just expecting favorable jobs, make money "filed" for my wife, it looks hard, jobs are going well. He was always willing to share housework makes me well satisfied. I find creating a child now tired parents, then at least that much, then let your tired. You have to learn a lot too, losing both early. I would like to have the money to take care of three children (have) so that you have the better life by us are not my nệ about your children, their children. Then I worry for parents, relatives on the surplus, then to spend a couple of old men together, traveling the excuses.At the moment I am afraid you have no job are earning well, alone I handle more children, too much, not to mention birth late is not good for mother and fetus, afraid of the childbirth affect health, intellectual mother. I say that you seem unhappy by his confidence that will balance your concern for the child. How do you say "Two adults living together forever sad also, born to children". He says a crave a little girls, expressed the wish to have a child as a result love me because I love. I want to have my part because management wanted me, so I love him even more.You know the old husband is a beautiful celebration with me, just because of the small inconsistencies that he dropped himself. And you don't have to marry, the property is just the House I stayed in, did not dispute. My ex-husband hours far away but yet to get married and still love me even though we would keep in touch. The new husband shape than older husband, and everything is lost, the more I love you and promise you will crush, faithful to him throughout his life.Tonight you its only I could say I have children, I say just say no, this time node to repeat again. I suspect I'm not wholeheartedly with you, do not want to have children. He said that I had the thought will come back with ex-husband. Now since the birth of her husband's belief that to me waver. I repeat what I thought, you're sulking, says cool. Should I have children again? B. the more anxiety too. You yourself ask for comments. Sincere thanks!

Kết quả (Anh) 2:

He said'd love to have a little girl, the child is the result of love for me because it loves me, wants to manage me, for I love you more.
I am 37 years old, had a husband and a great son , I was in college. I recently married a new husband for nearly a year, more than my brother 10 years old, divorced his wife and two children. His oldest daughter just to college, stay with your mother; Small boys in high school, then I was just maternal family take abroad. The relationship between me and my husband with his ex-wife and three children are fine. , I am having a good position in a state agency, private husband. Recently, he expressed his desire to have more babies, I wonder too. He said another birth to the couple tightening feelings, he wanted to have a child with me, I promise to take care of your mother attentive, not afraid to difficult, afraid to take the pain for me to sleep as a child. The only time you and I, as the son couples. The reason I am confused because I was almost 20 years old, too old self also facilitate childbirth should be afraid. Part is that I have a stable income, he was erratic. Nearly all activities this year mainly because my family undertook, he said only expect favorable job, make money "paid" for his wife, it seems very try, work is progressing well. He was always willing to share the house makes me happy as well. I saw a child created is now less tired parents that children are more tired. The children have learned a lot too, lost its childhood. I wish the couple the money will take care of three children (have) to the grandchildren have a better life because we are not squeamish about his children, their children. Then the women take care of their parents, relatives sides, then to spend extra couple of elderly care for each other, traveling and all that. now I fear he'd never work with good income, I alone bear the more children, too, not to mention bad for a late birth mother and fetus, fear of childbirth affects mental health, mother and daughter. I said that he did not seem pleased by'm confident that I will be more than enough for the child concerned. From time to time he says "Two adults stay together forever is sad too, go baby brother". He said very crave a little girl, want to have children express the result of love for me because it loves me. He wanted to have children partly because management wants me to love him more. husband I know a good memories for me, just because of small conflicts that he left her. My friend and I are not married, the property is just me in the house, not disputed. My ex-husband but still not far away now married and still loves me even though we are keeping in touch distance. New husband looks older than her husband, still lags far everything I ever loved him and promised myself to his side, with his faithful life. tonight told me he cooed children, he said only notes say this once, not repeated again. He did not doubt wholeheartedly with you, not wanting to have children. He said that I thought would go back to her ex-husband. Time for the baby but my husband's confidence shaken. I repeated what I had thought, he sulked, said cool. Should I have children again? Births to worry too much. Hope you for your comments. Sincere thanks!