When looking back at his life, you regret what for?Finally, you yourself not someone else is responsible for your use of the number of days remaining in this life. Hate or love, happiness or disaster are just those choices made by yourself.According to Business Insider, this is the question that Karl Pillemer, a Professor of human development at Cornell University (USA), author of the book "30 lessons of life: advice from wise people for America", asked hundreds of elderly people on 65 years of research program Legacy Project (heritage project) of Cornell University.Love, career, children, etc., is not the answer that Professor Pillemer was heard most often, which instead is the sentence:"I WISH THAT I DIDN'T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME OF HIS LIFE JUST TO WORRY".Many years ago, when Professor Pillemer, a geriatric expert of world renown met Mrs. June Driscoll, a special woman. Ms. Driscoll always fun when at the age of 90 and living in a nursing home. Ms. Driscoll told the Professor: "Live happy, happy as possible is my responsibility, right here, today."That has inspired Pillemer go in search of the answer to how a generation experiencing more grief, loss through the historical facts and catastrophic illness can be the happiest people. He wanted to convey this wisdom to the younger generation, who seem too fragile, when only a non-satisfactory short also made them disoriented enough to end his life himself.In 2004, Professor Pillemer project launch Legacy Project and asked more than 1,500 Americans over the age of 65 of the most important lessons that they learned throughout his life. In his book "30 life lessons", he calls his people to interview the "professionals of the life" for themselves, through happiness and sufferings, successes and failures took the lessons of wisdom more than any of the content of the book teaches life skills.Professor Pillemer has argued that these answers as "adultery, bad business or addictions" are things to regret for the life of the elderly.Therefore, he was shocked to hear of going to hear one answer: "I wish that you don't worry too much" and "I regret for having excessive fear about everything".In his book "30 life lessons," Pillemer said that he could not not surprise about this lesson. "These people are going through difficult periods in history and the tragedy of my life, I thought that they are allowed to worry in extent".WHO ALMOST WENT TO THE END OF THIS LIFE EXPLAINED THAT TIME IS THE MOST PRECIOUS ASSET OF THE PEOPLE. THE WORRY ABOUT WHAT MAY NEVER HAPPEN, OR FEAR ABOUT WHAT WE CAN'T CONTROL IS A WASTE OF THIS PROPERTY IN A STUPID WAY.The journey on this earth of each of us is finite. If worry too much, you no longer have these guys time to enjoy, and happy experience. So how to reduce time to worry in this life? "The wise for the United States," said Professor Pillemer several ways as follows: Let's live each day, don't always think about the future too farWhen you live and find yourself worrying too much, please stop and forgive yourself "what gets through."The work you are faced, though difficult, painful going also will drift away. You can't ruin his life with the thought of fear.However, there are certainly those day u up that you feel terrible anxiety, no way to stop. Then try to think: fear not work well at all. It's like the poison pill themselves that obnoxious neighbor name hopes will die because of abdominal pain. Be whisked it out thinking as possible.
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